Sarafina Loriakwe is a survivor advocate, mentor, and research consultant working across the Samburu and Nairobi communities, and affiliated with the survivor led movement. Her work sits at the intersection of advocacy, community engagement, and research, with a strong focus on ending FGM, child marriage, and gender based violence while advancing girls’ education, sexual and reproductive health and rights, and women’s empowerment.
Her journey into advocacy is deeply rooted in lived experience. A life changing experience at a young age shifted her path, bringing with it stigma, emotional challenges, and moments of self-doubt. Through a long process of healing and self discovery, Sarafina began to understand how many young girls and women endure similar experiences in silence. This realization became the foundation of her purpose driven work: transforming personal pain into advocacy, awareness, and support for others navigating similar realities.
Today, Sarafina uses her lived experience as both a tool for connection and a bridge for change. She facilitates mentorship sessions for young girls, creates safe spaces for discussions on sexual and reproductive health, and leads community dialogues addressing youth empowerment and stigma particularly around issues such as teenage motherhood. She also contributes to storytelling and awareness campaigns, using narrative and lived experience to challenge silence and inspire understanding within communities.
One of the most defining moments in her work came after a community dialogue she facilitated, when a young girl approached her and quietly said, “I thought I was alone until today.” That moment reaffirmed Sarafina’s belief that impact is often found in small but powerful human connections, where sharing stories helps others feel seen, validated, and less isolated.
Sarafina’s approach is rooted in lived experience, empathy, and authenticity. She does not speak about issues from a distance; she speaks from within them. This allows her to build deep trust with young people and create non judgmental spaces where honest conversations can take place. By combining storytelling with advocacy, she breaks stigma while also connecting individuals to information, support, and opportunities for growth. Despite her impact, she has faced challenges including stigma, self doubt, emotional strain, and limited opportunities in some professional spaces. However, she continues to grow through resilience, turning each challenge into part of her leadership journey. Her work is guided by empathy, honesty, and dignity, ensuring that every engagement is rooted in respect and understanding.
For Sarafina, sisterhood is a form of solidarity where women and girls genuinely show up for one another without judgment. It is about shared strength, healing, and the power of lived experience as a collective tool for transformation. Through the Sister to Sister Initiative, she envisions deeper peer support, learning, and empowerment that centers the voices of women from diverse lived realities. She strongly believes that meaningful change happens when youth voices and lived experiences are centered in programs, research, and policy. Her long term vision is to contribute to systems in the MERL and development space that are informed by community realities, ensuring that young people especially girls are not only supported but also trusted as leaders of change.
Sarafina envisions a future where girls and women are fully informed, supported, and free from stigma, where conversations around reproductive health and lived experiences are open and respectful, and where every girl knows her voice and story matter.
My story is not my limitation, it is my message and my voice is for every girl who thought she had to stay silent.
SARAFINA LORIAKWE
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